These days and months everything seems to come together for me in all areas of life – and also I notice how it has been separated in different ways. For example, besides this blog I have several others. Right now it feels most natural to me to bring it all together in one place and see how it works. This one place will be The Awakening Blog here. In fact, that’s where I’ve written what this is all about – I hope you will find it inspiring too.
A Facebook friend wrote on my wall today: “SocialInterview asked me “Would Halina Goldstein be a good rapper?” She answered: ”I don’t think that’s her “thang” today, but who knows what she’ll decide to try tomorrow!”
Within the next 2 minutes I noticed another post on Facebook and that led me to a video of a rap titled Love is you (I’ll show it to you in a moment). Wow! If I was to rap what’s on my mind/heart this would be it!
Because while rap isn’t my “thang” (yet?), sharing the experience of “Love is you” and supporting you in opening up to love in all aspects of your life is. Through
“Grace has come and cracked you open
but for some – no reason – you keep hopin’
for another thrill or another blast.
You’re tryin’ to find some love you think will last.
Well, listen ‘cuz there’s something that you need to hear:
Whatever you find . . . will disappear.
And if you’re tryin’ to return to a place you once saw,
give up your travel plans, cuz you won’t get far.
There’s only one kind of love that will ever be around.
It’s not the kind you find, and it’s not the kind you found.
And there’s only time that you will ever feel it,
only one place that you can reveal it.
Here and Now
Here and Now
Here and Now
Here and Now
That’s what we’re talkin’ about.
So listen very closely in this moment at this time
and you will see the love right here in the rhyme.
And there’s absolutely nothing that you need to do
‘cuz, very simply stated, love is you.
Love is You
Love is You . . . .
So when you stop your searchin’ and you stop your hopin’
the only thing you see is a heart wide open.
And there’s nothing left to do but to watch it all go
as love writes the rhymes and love runs the show.
Love is You
Love is You . . . .
Oh, and one more thing that I forgot to mention:
Give this love all of your attention,
‘cuz what you see is what you give
and there’s nothin’ more precious than the love you live.
There’s nothin’ more precious than the love you live.
Love is You
Love is You . . . (fade)
Grace is here, and you are open,
and there is no reason for you to be hopin’
‘cuz there’s absolutely nothin’ that you need to do.
There’s no denyin’ it: Love is you”
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Pala and Al present this package of video and text instruction with humility, not pretending to be Hollywood slick, explicit but definitely not pornographic. The featured couple are attractive but not “intimidatingly beautiful”; they are “ordinary people”, probably just like yourself.
The launch of the Tantra Video Home Study Course is part of a re-launch of the re-designed Sexy Spiritual Relationships membership site. I’ve been writing about it before on this blog, so won’t do it again . Besides, I don’t want you to read my words about it – I invite you to simply go visit and check out all that’s available there:
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Talking Articles
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Music (MP3)
Forum
Featured Experts to support (including myself )
During the sale (and I’m not aware how long it’s going to last) Al & Pala are almost giving memberships away for free. This is in fact something we “disagree” about: they feel you shouldn’t charge for enlightenment, I feel money is not a price to pay but an expression of appreciation and so there are all kinds of good reasons to raise it. But then, it’s their website, not mine so if money has significance, this is the time to create access to all the goodies here.
For a little while now I have been amazing myself with a new relationship . It is new and surprising in all kinds of ways. It is a long story and a story unfolding. Also it is a story that I and Terrence McKee (my new friend and colleague) have started sharing at the blog dedicated to the brand new series of conferences calls titled “Awakening Relationships Workshop“. It’s a way for us to share and expand our experiences and insights and, most importantly, our ability to create and enjoy relationships in radically new and liberating ways.
Are you tired of your spouse – or yourself – reacting to something that you/he/she did way back? Like in “Last summer you went to movies without even asking me if I wanted to go with you. That really hurt!”. Sometimes something apparently small can push a big button – and because it’s just a small thing (or for any other perfect reasons) you decide to swallow the reaction. But then, it doesn’t quite work this way – you can’t get it out of your system, so it comes up again: days, weeks, months, perhaps even years later. So here you are, the two of you discussing your past: “But you should have…” “But you didn’t”… “But you…but… but!” – feeling like you’re caught in a bad, old dream and you can’t wake up. So what to do?
The ultimate way is to take a step towards awakening from bad dreams once and for all. To approach situations like these in a radically new, liberating way – the Busting Loose way. To start walking on your path to True Joy. To start creating relationships in a radically new way. Which by the way you can do, regardless whether your spouse will join you on such path or not.
Or, if for some reason you don’t feel that this is where you want to go, at least not right now, here’s a “It’s now or never” strategy that you may find both challenging and refreshing: I’ve just seen a couple sharing this in a Danish documentary: They have made a “contract” with each other: “If you have a reaction to something I do or say and you don’t bring it up within the next 20 minutes the case is closed!”. Meaning, speak up now or you’ve got to deal with it on your own!
Now this comes from a mature, loving couple that’s totally committed to each other, so it’s not that they don’t care. On the contrary, it’s because they support each other in sharing and expressing themselves honestly and authentically here and now, rather than hiding “stuff” and then let it germinate (or rot ).
I’m sure you and I could think of plenty of other ways to approach conflict and communication in relationships but right now I’m only interested in these two, so right now this is what I’m sharing here. Because only right now really counts!
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January 17, 2010 3:15 pm | 
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